ASAA respects our valued clients’ rights for health and safety as our first priority. As an essential service provider, we offer expert professional counselling for sex, pornography, and love addicts, and betrayal trauma counselling and support therapy for partners and spouses of sex addicts as strictly confidential online treatments. We also stay open for face to face counselling in our Sydney rooms during the COVID-19 crisis and provide our counselling services in accordance with the NSW Government social distancing and sanitary regulations. Our extensive experience, spanning over more than two decades in providing online and telephone counselling services across the Nation and Internationally, allows us to ensure the same excellent quality of therapeutic benefits and successful recovery outcomes as you would expect from our face to face counselling in our Sydney private practice rooms. You can connect with Heide via Skype, Zoom, Face Time, and Phone call.

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Affirmotive Sex Addiction Australia (ASAA) was established to accurately inform Australians on the nature of hypersexuality and a myriad of sexual addictive disorders, including sex addiction, pornography addiction, and love and relationship addiction. In addition, our trained sex therapist offers clinical counselling for a vast spectrum of sex and sexuality issues such as sexual intimacy difficulties, sexual function and dysfunction, sexual health, sexual orientation and identity, and gender health. We provide specialized treatments to sex addicts and professional counselling support to their partners and families who are impacted by the physical, emotional, psychological, and financial consequences of sexual addiction. Based in Sydney and Online, our private and strictly confidential professional counselling and sex therapy is available in all major Australian cities and rural & remote Australia alike including; Sydney, Wollongong, and NSW, Central Coast, Newcastle, Hunter Region, South Coast NSW, Melbourne and VIC, Canberra and ACT, Adelaide and SA, Perth, Broome, and WA, Darwin, Alice Springs and NT, Brisbane, Gold Coast, and QLD, Cairns and Northern QLD, New Zealand, and living elsewhere abroad including English speaking Asian countries.

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Sex addiction can happen to anyone, indiscriminately of socioeconomic background, social or marital status, education, age, gender, culture or religion. Sex addiction is a fully treatable disorder. Find out for yourself if you may be addicted to sex, pornography, or love. Select from our free and anonymous tests below and get your answer right away, or scroll right down to our Professional Counselling, Therapy and Treatment section

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ASAA is a specialist counsellor in the field of human sexuality. We provide expert treatment for Hypersexuality and Sexual Behavioural Disorders, Sexual Addictions, Pornography Addiction, Love Addiction, Sexual Betrayal Trauma and Spouse Support Counselling, Sexual Health and Sexual Dysfunction counselling, Gender and Sexual Orientation Counselling, Individual, Relationship and Marriage Therapy, and Same Sex Counselling 

About Heide McConkey


  • Dip. Professional Counselling AIPC #FS3364A
  • Dip. Sexual Health Counselling, ASSERT, ACSHP
  • Clinical Sex Therapist, ASSERT NSW
  • Supervisor, College Of Supervisors ACA #COS2409
  • Founder and Director of Affirmotive Sex Addiction Australia (ASAA) and Affirmotive Sex And Relationship Therapy ABN 46 997 766 505

Providing Good Mental Health Services Since 1998

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